Dresses, Skirts & Bows, Oh My! Guest Post!

Please welcome Mrs. Stam!

She is the loving wife of Harry and precious mother of 3 little girls!

She has a beautiful heart and has agreed to write a guest post here.

Thank you, Renee, for sharing!
The link to her blog is a button on the ride side of my side bar.

I was ask to write our reason why we wear all dress or skirt. But let me mention first that we do not believe that wearing modest pants is wrong, just so you know!


When I`m talking about dress and skirt I`m talking about modest one of course, that is very important to us that we dress to please our Lord. So they are not too short nor too tight, or showing cleavage. I know some of you might not agree with our standard but this is what the Lord have convicted us with and we are wearing clothes that will not make our brothers in Christ fall!


Matt 18:6 “If anyone causes one of these little ones—those who believe in me—to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea.

Another reason why I and our little girls are wearing dresses and skirt is to please my husband. He love long skirt or long dress on us and that is what he finds attractive, and I`m all for making my husband find me attractive hehe!  


With that said I go beyond just wearing them because my husband likes them and that they are pleasing to the Lord. I took it a step further, I do not buy any clothes without my husband approval!!! Now you all may thing I`m crazy and want to stop reading right now, but bare with me for a few more minutes.


I can`t tell while wearing a piece of clothing if it`s not modest enough, I`m not a man and I do not struggle with what I see. My husband is one and who better to tell me, ``honey, this is not appropriate, please do not wear this`` 


Another reason why he chooses my clothes is because I let him choose the clothes and pattern that he like to see me wear.  What he finds attractive is very important to me.  Even if that mean wearing flowery  pattern!!!!


1 Cor 7 :4 
 For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 

I want to also add that modesty is more then just what you wear is as to come from your heart. Your outside appearance most of the time reflect your heart. Ladies, make sure that you have a pure heart before the Lord and take a look into your closet and prayerfully ask God for his standard!!! and please do not fall into legalism.  Mrs. Stam


Thank you again for this guest post!  It's wonderful!!!!